why women dont like men?

Most men HATE the idea of "rejection".A guy can psych himself up for an hour to go talk to a woman, but when the moment comes to actually DO IT, EVERYTHING changes.
The heart rate shoots up, breathing quickens, eyes dart back and forth, thoughts of rejection fill the mind, and eventually the pressure becomes too much to bare.Most men find this state so scary that they end up deciding to forget about approaching the women... just to end the discomfort.
The temptation is great to just "walk away", because just as quickly as the intense nervousness is triggered by the moment one decides to ACT, it goes away when you decide to "forget about it and walk away".The fact that "choosing to walk away" leads to
the "instant gratification" of the nervous feeling going away makes it the most popular option.Most of the time (and I'm talking about probably 99% of the time here) men just walk away. They give
up before they've even started.
I think it's important to realize that there's a BIG difference between ACTUAL rejection (having a girl who is offended, upset, rude, etc. to you when you start talking to her) and the FEAR of rejection (how you feel when you imagine a woman rejecting you). The main reason for this is that most of the time when a man starts talking to a woman, she is actually rather nice about the whole affair.Men aren't "rejected" very often!If a woman isn't interested, she usually just says "I have a boyfriend" or "No thank you"... or she'll just walk away without saying anything at all.You can experience an intense FEAR of rejection EVERY time you consider approaching a woman.

HOW TO DEAL WITH REJECTION...
If you get "rejected", you'll be fine.It's no big deal, and it doesn't happen that often.And when it does, you'll recover shortly thereafter.You'll find yourself telling your friends about it, and laughing together. Rejection from a woman is about as painful as getting a "D" on a test.If you can overcome your imaginary FEAR of rejection, you'll be on your way.
WHY WOMEN REJECT MEN...
Now let's talk about those rare instances where a woman actually REJECTS a man.I do NOT consider a woman walking away without
stopping to talk to you, her saying "No thank you", or any other time when a woman just simply doesn't engage to be "rejection".
1. The guy isn't paying attention, and he does something stupid to begin with.Some guys don't see anything wrong with following
a woman around all night, staring at her constantly, then walking over with a nervous, sweaty-palmed, stalkerish look and saying "You remind me of my sister".
2. The guy doesn't stop when he should.If two women are sitting alone at a table in the corner, and one of them is obviously upset, and you walk over to them and say "Hi, can I buy you a drink?"... and the upset one looks at you and says "No thanks, we're in the middle of a conversation" (then looks away from you back at her friend)... and you say "Aw, cummon, have a drink. You need to lighten up and have some fun"... and she looks back at you and says firmly "We're busy"... and you say "What, are you in a bad
mood or something? I'm just trying to buy you a drink"... and she says "We don't want a drink"... and you say "Well maybe your friend does"... and the friend says "No, I don't want one either"...
3. Making a woman nervous with your body language.If you start talking to a woman, but your posture is weak and slumped, your eyes are darting around but not meeting hers, and you're wearing an unbuttoned flannel shirt with one of the tails tucked in, you're
probably not going to get a favorable response.
4. Not understanding a woman's body language and other
communication.

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Bye vinod

Is it a love letter? anyway happy valentine's day

Dear xyz:

I know its been ages now that we hardly spoken any words to each other.counselor said we shouldn't contact each other during our "cooling off" period, but I couldn't wait anymore. The day you left,I swore I'd never talk to you again.But that was just the wounded little boy in me talking.
In my fantasies, it was always you who would come crawling back to me. I guess my pride needed that. But now I see that my pride's cost me a lot of things. I'm tired of pretending I don't miss you. I don't care about you looking bad anymore. I don't care who makes the first move as long as one of us does.
Maybe it's time we let our hearts speak as loudly as our hurt. And this is what my heart says... "There's no one like you, my dear xyz."
I look for you in the eyes and face of every girl I see, but they're
not you. They're not even close. Two months ago, I met this girl
online and brought her with me. I don't say this to hurt you, but just to illustrate the depth of my desperation. She was young, maybe 21, with one of those lovely faces, I always dreamt about.You wouldn't believe that her *** was like a tortoise shell. Every man's dream, right?
It's all so superficial. What does a perfect girl mean? Does it make her better at home? Well, in this case, yes. But you see what I'm getting at.Does it make her a better person? Does she have a better heart than my ugly and unattractive xyz? I doubt it. And I'd never really thought of that before.
I Don't know, maybe I'm just growing up a little.I found myself thinking, "Why do I feel so drained and empty?" It wasn't just her flawless technique or her slutty, shameless hunger like you, but something else. Some niggling feeling of loss. Why did it feel so incomplete? And then it hit me. It didn't feel the same because you weren't there, xyz, to watch. Do you know what I mean?
Nothing feels the same without you. I'm just going crazy without you. And everything I do just reminds me of you.
Saturday, your sister stayed with me and we had really a good time.I mean, pqr's just a kid and all, but she's got a pretty good head on her shoulders and she's been a real friend to me during this painful time. She's given me lots of good counsel about you and about women in general. She's pulling for us to get back together, xyz, She really is. So we're drinking in a hot bath and talking about happier times. Here's this teenage girl with the same DNA as you and all I can do is think of how much she looked like you when you were 18. And that just about makes me cry.But do you see how much i care for your little sister?It is all just because I always do think of you.
It's true, xyz. In your heart you know it. Don't you think we could start over? Just wipe out all the grievances and start fresh?I think we can. If you feel the same please please please let me know, otherwise, can you let me know where could I find your sister this time?.

Ever yours
abc

"It is not even remotely connected to me"

Only word I hate most is "friend"

FRINEDS ARE FOR EVER
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I am neither your boyfriend
Nor your brother
Not even your friend
What should I call you
I am still confused too

Why do I like you most
And hate you too
You are none why do I care
My dear it happens very rare

I am the most unlucky guy
Can't even say you a big "HI"
Neither on the road,nor in the way
Not even anywhere anyway

Only god and me knows
I never talked wrong
Then how can you expect me
To wait so long
Whenever I talk to you
I scare to lose you
When I don't talk to you
I feel to miss you

Sometimes you say
Sometimes you fight
Might be I was a bit wrong
Say how you are right
One day I might stand up
And say to this world
You are my friend
You are my friend
Its definitely not for you ket.. or man.. so dont think in that way. well dont have time to write here at this moment of time.sorry Bye
VInod

Felcity

Whole three days of drama after a stunnind success came to end last night oh sorry last day cuz it was around 3:00 am while the birds were getting back to their nests. This was my second felicity in my four years of stay here at IIIT. The last two I havent even seen which ground it was held. Of course this time I enjoyed a lot and in my opinion It was a great success.
May be it is my personnel feelings as I rarely encountered my nightmare there in the ground so it was a pleasant evening for me to enjoy in the ground. I danced a lot without knowing a single step or abc of dancing (I'm really gonna miss it). Well I couldnt prove myself to be a good organizer as I failed once again with cyber quiz.I was a part of organizing team and really didnt do much.At this point I would be true to myself in telling that I am not satisfied with myself. Well I am quite satisfied with my participation though couldnt really win anything :(. The only thing I missed a lot is man** as I wanted her to be there atleast but she didnt come and that made me go crazy.
I have realised it is just one way traffic and it wont ever go. It is me only who thinks abt her but she never cares abt what I need. This way nothing is gonna happen as i can be sure of this. I really now want to discontinue this one way traffic....... I HATE THIS. how come u cant come for once for someone who cares you so much? This is just unfair. I am trapped now by taking project with her as I am not sure of its completion even in years. It would take me ages to start the project as she doesnt even come for once.It is just rediculous. Well I sound little bit frustrated but it is all because of her only. Anyway leave it.come to felicity 05. It was a great effort towards the excelence.
Last night was one of the best night for me atleast I enjoyed to my fullest. There are hardly such occassions where I feel comfortable and it was one of them. Most of the girls were too dancing though I was not dancing with them but it was looking great to see them all together. Of course I stilll dont see someone's face and even pray anytime I worship not to bring any of them in front of me.It is too embarrassing and disturbing for me. In mohabbatein I remember one dialogue as it left a print in my heart too.It goes like this "maine zindagi mein sirf ek hi ladki se pyar kiya hai .... aur ushi se zindagi bhar karta rahunga".But for me it changed a bit "Zindagi mein maine bahut kam logon se nafrat ki hai...... aur ushe zindagi bhar karta rahunga ". Anyways I didnt want to make to so long I would keep something for next post.....until then.
BYe VInod

Felicity 4 me ........ a bane or boon?

I cant say myself but lets start with issues that may unknowingly say what this felicity brought for me.oh sorry I have no time now because I am tired......so going to sleep :(.Miss you very much
BYe VInod